Guys care a lot less about how girls look than girls might think. We don’t care if you have a wobbly butt, small boobs, a big nose or a pimples.
The problem is that the small fraction of guys who do care are much louder. They make you feel ugly because they want to feel less ugly by comparison, and they make noise about it because their voice is easy to hide behind.
The most fragile societies are the ones where women are put down by law, custom, attitude or whatever. The world would be nicer if people were nicer.